Monday, November 27, 2017

2017 Thankfulness: Week 47

Hey, this week was made for this activity since it includes Thanksgiving day!


Thanksgiving week thankfulness:

Sunday

  • Seeing the sunset after a mostly rainy weekend
  • Purchasing capability of the internet
  • Feeling like making conversation after meeting

Monday

  • A short work week
  • Warmer afternoon temperatures
  • Clear sky

Tuesday

  • Getting the end of year review done
  • Mental break while exercising on the stair stepper
  • Caring friends

Wednesday

  • A visit from my parents
  • A short work week
  • Planning to get some home projects done

Thursday

  • Help with reaking leaves
  • Delicious food on the Thanksgiving table
  • Parents who are good examples

Friday

  • Mom's cooking
  • Another productive project day
  • A dad who helps with projects

Saturday

  • New bath doors installed
  • Having people over for supper
  • Mom helping with the cooking


I think my Thanksgiving post covers the pictures for the week.

Sunday, November 26, 2017

Thanksgiving Weekend 2017

The Thanksgiving weekend was somewhat low key with a good level of productivity.  Mom and Dad came for the weekend.  Mostly I put them to work on projects, and we had a couple meals with company.  I went all weekend and didn't take any people pictures.  Whoops.  But if you need a picture of a page from a dishwasher installation manual, I have that.


Thursday
  • Thanksgiving lunch with Mom, Dad, Meeting Man, and his son.  We were partially non-traditional, but at least we had mashed potatoes.
  • After a relaxation break, then we went outside and raked leaves until sundown.  We finished in 2 hours and 20 minutes what normally takes me 7 or 8 hours by myself.
  • Hung the kayaks up for the season.
  • Put the table top on the new table frame
Filet mignon, squash, mashed potatoes, salad, cranberry sauce, and home-squeezed apple cider.
 
We cleaned it up better than this, but I took the picture a couple days later after more leaves fell.

Kayaking season completed for 2017.
 
Nearly completed!
Friday
  • The piano tuner came to tune the piano - first time in about 15 years, so it took him a while.
  • Went to the warehouse to pick up the new dishwasher.  It fit in Herman no problem!  No special hauling vehicle needed.
  • Uninstalled old dishwasher
  • Made list of parts needed at Lowe's
  • Installed new dishwasher
  • Checked for leaks and ran the first load of dishes!
  • Finished installing shelf on new table and fastened it to wall (it is a bit top-heavy)
  • Dad tore out the old bath shower doors

Table completed with stereo and knick-knacks upon it.

New dishwasher fully installed!
Saturday
  • Bathtub shower doors installed
  • Ran to the grocery store for the upcoming supper company
  • Cleaned up the house from dishwasher and shower door installation projects
  • Ate supper with guests
  • Chilled out / learned how to use Dropbox to trade some files

New shower doors ready to use.
Sunday
  • Went to morning meeting
  • Made a brief stop at a local state park to see the dunes
  • Ate leftovers for lunch
  • Bid Mom and Dad adieu
  • Chilled out and took a nap
  • Took a brief sunset walk
  • Various and sundry cooking, computer work, eating supper, etc.



A good weekend.  Thanks for visiting Mom and Dad!

Monday, November 20, 2017

Book Review: The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership

Normally it takes me forever to write a review of a book I've read, but tonight I'm feeling inspired to write.  I just finished "The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership" by John C. Maxwell.  He's a relatively well-known leadership author and trainer who's probably more well known in church leadership circles.  One of my mentors gave me a different book by John C. Maxwell a couple years ago, so I read that one.  When I was at Goodwill with Uncle Bex a couple weeks ago this one caught my eye for a several reasons:

  • It's about leadership and personal development
  • The author's name was familiar
  • One of the irrefutable laws in the table of contents was the Law of Intuition.  Uncle Bex and I often have discussions and debates about intuition, so this particular subject caught my eye.
I've been reading a chapter or two a day for the last several weeks and enjoyed the book.  Some days when my attitude was tending to sink a bit, I'd read a chapter while eating supper and it helped give a better focus.  Like most leadership books, there is that main thread that runs through it related to creating trust, establishing relationships with people, being consistent, and working on improving every day.



This book reminded me again why I think Abraham Lincoln was a great leader, and it gave me a fresh appreciation for Theodore Roosevelt and Winston Churchill.  In the introduction of the book, I also found this passage to be encouraging:  "The laws can be learned.  Some are easier to understand and apply than others, but every one of them can be acquired."

I'll try to keep the review short.  As you might guess, the book has a chapter for each leadership law.  I think I'll give a super brief summary of the table of contents and one (or two) of my favorite quotes from each chapter.
  1. The Law of the Lid - Leadership ability determines a person's level of effectiveness.  "Wherever you look, you can find smart, talented, successful people who are able to go only so far because of the limitations of their leadership."
  2. The Law of Influence - The true measure of leadership is influence - nothing more, nothing less.  "If you are a businessperson and you really want to find out whether your people are capable of leading, send them out to volunteer their time in the community.  If they can get people to follow them while they're serving at the Red Cross, a United Way shelter, or their local church, then you know that they really do have influence - and leadership ability."  "He who thinks he leads but has no followers, is only taking a walk."
  3. The Law of Process - Leadership develops daily, not in a day.  "The secret of our success is found in our daily agenda. -Tag Short"
  4. The Law of Navigation - Anyone can steer the ship, but it takes a leader to chart the course.  "Leaders who navigate do even more than control the direction in which they and their people travel.  They see the whole trip in their minds before they leave the dock."  "Sometimes it's difficult balancing optimism and realism, intuition and planning, faith and fact.  But that's what it takes to be effective as a navigating leader."
  5. The Law of E.F. Hutton - When the real leader speaks, people listen.  "Being in power is like being a lady.  If you have to tell people you are, you aren't. -Margaret Thatcher"  "Don't listen to the claims of the person professing to be the leader.  Instead, watch the reactions of the people around him.  The proof of leadership is found in the followers."
  6. The Law of Solid Ground - Trust is the foundation of leadership.  "Trust is the foundation of leadership.  People will forgive occasional mistakes based on ability, especially if they can see that you're still growing as a leader.  But they won't trust someone who has slips in character.  In that area, even occasional lapses are lethal.  All effective leaders know this truth."
  7. The Law of Respect - People naturally follow leaders stronger than themselves.  "When people respect someone as a person, they admire her.  When they respect her as a friend, they love her.  When they respect her as a leader, they follow her."
  8. The Law of Intuition - Leaders evaluate everything with a leadership bias.  "Leadership is really more art than science.  The principles of leadership are constant, but the application changes with every leader and every situation.  That's why it requires intuition."
  9. The Law of Magnetism - Who you are is who you attract.  "If you think your people are negative, then you better check your attitude."
  10. The Law of Connection - Leaders touch a heart before they ask for a hand.  "People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care."  "To lead yourself, use your head; to lead others, use your heart."
  11. The Law of the Inner Circle - A leader's potential is determined by those closest to him.  "People who are able to lift up others and boost the morale in an organization are invaluable, and they are always a tremendous asset to a leader's inner circle."
  12. The Law of Empowerment - Only secure leaders give power to others.  "If you are able to continually empower others and help them develop so that they become capable of taking over your job, you will become so valuable to the organization that you become indispensable."  "A key to empowering others is high belief in people."
  13. The Law of Reproduction - It takes a leader to raise up a leader.  "People cannot give to others what they themselves do not possess.  But just because a person is a leader, it does not necessarily mean that he will raise up other leaders."
  14. The Law of Buy-In - People buy into the leader, then the vision.  "People don't at first follow worthy causes.  They follow worthy leaders who promote worthwhile causes."
  15. The Law of Victory - Leaders find a way for the team to win.  "When the pressure is on, great leaders are at their best.  Whatever is inside them comes to the surface and works for or against them."  "You can't win without good athletes, but you can lose with them.  This is where coaching makes a difference. -Lou Holtz"
  16. The Law of the Big Mo - Momentum is a leader's best friend.  "It takes a leader to create momentum.  Followers catch it.  And managers are able to continue it once it has begun."
  17. The Law of Priorities - Leaders understand that activity is not necessarily accomplishment.  "The things that bring the greatest personal reward are the fire lighters in a leader's life.  Nothing energizes a person the way passion does."
  18. The Law of Sacrifice - A leader must give up to go up.  "When you become a leader, you lose the right to think about yourself. -Gerald Brooks"
  19. The Law of Timing - When to lead is as important as what to do and where to go.  "Reading a situation and knowing what to do are not enough to make you succeed in leadership.  Only the right action at the right time will bring success.  Anything else exacts a high price.  That's the Law of Timing."
  20. The Law of Explosive Growth - To add growth, lead followers - to multiply, lead leaders.  "Leaders who develop followers grow their organization only one person at a time.  But leaders who develop leaders multiply their growth, because for every leader they develop, they also receive all of that leader's followers."
  21. The Law of Legacy - A leader's lasting value is measured by succession.  "Achievement comes to someone when he is able to do great things for himself.  Success comes when he empowers followers to do great thing with him.  Significance comes when he develops leaders to do great things for him.  But a legacy is created only when a person puts his organization into the position to do great things without him."
This book review reminds me of two other book reviews that have been lingering in "draft" state for a year or two now.  Maybe I'll get to them sometime soon.

Sunday, November 19, 2017

2017 Thankfulness: Week 46

Thankfulness from this past week is as follows:

Sunday

  • A weekend spent with friends
  • Two nights in a row of good sleep
  • Spiritual conversations

Monday

  • Getting eating habits back on track
  • Eating lunch with other people
  • 24 hour Walgreens

Tuesday

  • Books
  • Spending almost two hours exercising
  • Checking things off the to-do list

Wednesday

  • Going to bed before midnight
  • Having a good attitude today
  • Snapchats from family

Thursday

  • Reflecting on the year's accomplishments
  • A low key evening
  • Feeling motivated at work

Friday

  • Bible verses that jump off the page at me
  • A tasty, low calorie supper
  • Supper with a friend

Saturday

  • Time to cook lots of food
  • Getting things done on the to-do list
  • Getting out of my comfort zone


One of my more healthy lunches from this week.  Thankful for the nice salad bar at the work cafeteria.

Saturday, November 18, 2017

2017 Thankfulness: Week 45

Thankfulness from last week:

The cute pictures I got in the mail.
Sunday

  • Getting more than 8 hours of sleep
  • Talking to my sister on the phone
  • Clear messages to my heart

Monday

  • Not having a 6:30 AM meeting on a Monday morning
  • Cute pictures arriving in the mail
  • Exercise

Tuesday

  • Not eating lunch at my desk
  • Making time to stretch
  • Able to reschedule an appointment easily

Wednesday

  • Being inspired to search the scriptures
  • Thanksgiving gathering at work
  • Clear sky

Thursday

  • Work week almost done
  • Looking forward to a weekend hanging out with friends
  • An hour and a half of relaxation

Friday

  • Fleeting golden morning sunshine on the fall leaf colors.
  • Interesting lunch conversation with my mentor.
  • Snack of fruit before bed

Saturday

  • A walk with a friend
  • Those who have served our country
  • Sleeping in


Friday, November 17, 2017

2017 Thankfulness: Week 44

I guess I fell a little bit behind in posting my thankfulness.  Don't worry, I've been faithfully keeping my log, but mostly it's been on paper until I transcribed it into the digital world.

Sunday

  • Some brief rays of sunshine
  • The spark of energy from starting to read a new leadership book
  • Playing a board game with competitive people

Monday

  • A cool breeze on my face
  • The joy of learning
  • Exercising strenuously

Tuesday

  • A caring e-mail from a friend
  • Strenuous, challenging yoga
  • Going to bed by 11:30 PM

Wednesday

  • Spiritual lunch conversation
  • Small compliments
  • Better work-life balance today

Thursday

  • Qdoba for lunch
  • Thinking about opportunities
  • Talking to Mom on the phone

Friday

  • Noticing the beauty of the maple leaves turning
  • Awesome full moon rise
  • Eating supper with a friend

Saturday

  • Eternal perspective reminders
  • Time to do little things around home
  • Having a hymn in my mind

I must be approaching middle age because now I feel like I have experienced part of what that verse means when it says "have borne the burden and heat of the day".

The small compliments on Wednesday were all related to this sweater.  Three compliments in one day!  I've had it more than two years and worn it several times.  This was the first time I had worn it in several months because it's more of a fall/winter article of clothing.  Oh, and this sweater is also one of the purchases from the shopping spree two years ago.

Sunday, November 05, 2017

Climate Control Results For 2017

I don't think I posted when I turned on my AC this summer, and last week I turned on my furnace.  I thought I held out pretty long for turning on the furnace this year, but it turns out it wasn't any kind of record or all that much out of the ordinary.  Another "average" year.  Possibly slightly warmer than normal.



Saturday, November 04, 2017

2017 Thankfulness: Week 43

Thankfulness from the week before last is below.

This mushroom by itself wasn't so amusing, but it was the word that came to mind to describe it that provoked good memories with a smile.  I thought it looked.....one might say.....bulbous.

Sunday

  • Morning sun shining on beautiful fall colors
  • Taking a nap
  • The care among the people I go to meeting with

Monday

  • Finding an amusing sight on the way back from the cafeteria
  • Being able to read all my new e-mail in my work inbox today
  • Leftovers

Tuesday

  • Carpooling with some coworkers that reminded me how work can be fun
  • Finding an easy solution to a problem
  • Doing stair stepper and yoga

Wednesday

  • God can change our attitude
  • An afternoon without meetings that enables focused work
  • Pre-packaged grapefruit

Thursday

  • Sunny, crisp fall morning
  • Looking forward to the weekend
  • Chips and salsa

Friday

  • National Public Radio (NPR)
  • The end of the work week
  • Safely completing a 4.5 hour drive

Saturday

  • Ibuprofin
  • A friend volunteering to be my personal shopper
  • Making good progress on picture labeling and sorting