Things I found amazing this week:
1. Friends
Last year I read a book called "The 5 Love Languages." I know, welcome to the 70's. Probably many of you have read the book before, but it was the first time for me. So here are my thoughts on the book plus some good summary thoughts. Overall, it was a good book. It was written with a focus on married couples, but the concepts were basic enough that I feel I can extrapolate the concepts to other relationships. But, if you feel you can't extrapolate, you can also purchase "The 5 Love Languages Singles Edition" by the same author, Gary Chapman.
The basic tenet of the book is that there are five overall categories for how people express love. They are as follows:
Uncle Bex mentioned Weird Al Yankovic earlier in the week, so I've been enjoying listening to some Weird Al this week. Most of you might get a kick out of his Amish Paradise song.
As long as I'm giving you interesting links, check out this "35 Things Every Engineer Has To Deal With In College." Several of them are for sure true. #30 is familiar, although I usually didn't have a crib sheet quite that crowded. I for sure did #31 the spring of my junior year when I took 21 credits of engineering, math, and science classes. I think that was the semester that Macroeconomics was my easiest class and I had four or five finals on the same day. #28 really cracks me up. I didn't have a table at the library, but I did have one in the EE study area. #25 is totally true. Check mark on #4, #7, #17, and #23.
As I walked out of work this evening, I saw two blue herons flying in the sky above the trees. Awesome.
Uncle Bex also sent me a link for this quote: "I tried to be normal once......worst two minutes of my life." According to one website, that's a quote from Ziad K. Abdelnour in Economic Warfare: Secrets of Wealth Creation in the Age of Welfare Politics. Uncle Bex must have thought it was applicable to something, but I haven't figured out what yet. :-)
That's all for now. Have a great weekend.
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Fire - Heh heh....heh heh. This is what happens when you throw two cups of fuel oil on a fire. The heat wave and flames were very impressive.
I'm waiting on a photo to arrive by e-mail before I discuss amazing things, so in the mean time I will tell you about an interesting discussion I had at work today.
My group at work had an "open house" where the various factions in our group had tables and products that we used to showcase all of our work to the rest of the people in the company. Historically my company is mostly "metal-benders", so sometimes we need to help educate other parts of the organization about electronics. As part of that, I ended up having a discussion with the global lab manager of our group. He gave a very interesting perspective. He said that the success of the products we produce is a reflection of the relationships of the people involved in the project. I think to some degree he's probably right. Within that context, he said the concepts of abuse, enablement, etc. apply to the working relationships in the company. Interesting food for thought. By accepting bad behavior and poor planning in the work place and trying to "cover" or compensate for that, are we further enabling that behavior?
The winds this evening have been at North Dakota-like levels. Swimming is not advised today due to the strong rip current. Softball tonight was a dusty and somewhat tricky affair. It was also disappointing because going into the bottom of the last inning we were ahead by at least 5 points, but then we gave up enough runs to lose the game. Sitting in my office here, the wind is howling outside like it's winter. And.....it's a full moon tonight. Speaking of full moons, my cousin was telling me that as a high school teacher she can always tell from her students' behavior when it's a full moon. My roommate in college who was a CNA said she could always tell it was a full moon from the patients' behavior.
All for now.
Why was it a good day? Work wasn't all that productive. I felt very interrupted and distracted today, but other things make up for it.
We had a good BS tonight. Don't you love it when you go to BS, and it seems like a whole bunch of people speak right to you? Our study tonight was in II Kings 23. It's one of the chapters about king Josiah and all he did to set a good example in Judah. As we'll read next week, after his reign, there were 11 years of more evil kings, and then the children went into captivity in Babylon. I have to tell you all that back story because the thought tonight that I found particularly nice was that it's very likely Daniel and his three friends would have been children during part of Josiah's reign. So, they probably had a good base during Josiah's peaceful reign to work off of during the 11 more evil years and during their captivity. The lesson to me was that we need to be building our own good base while possible.
On to more mundane things like the air conditioner. It was pretty sweltering in my house yesterday when I got home from work (it was over 90 yesterday), so I decided to turn on the AC because it was so hot - and because I figured the house would need to be cooled down before BS tonight. The first time this year. I tried to turn it on, but no luck. The thermostat downstairs said it was something like 83 when I went to bed, and it's usually a good 5-10 degrees warmer upstairs where I sleep. Whew! It was kind of a restless night, needless to say. Thankfully there was a service man available today to repair it so that we could study tonight in relative comfort (I mean, I didn't go crazy and turn it down to 72 or anything). This of course doesn't set any records. It's not as good as 2008 when I didn't turn the AC on at all. But, it's later than 2011 when I turned the AC on in June.
The reason for the issue with the AC was varmints getting into the condenser unit and chewing through some wires. This has happened before, and shame on me for purchasing moth balls last fall and not making use of them. This is the price I pay for laziness. What I would like to know is why it says on the package of moth balls that you shouldn't breathe the fumes. Isn't that the whole point? You put them in a place where they give off gases and deter moths and other varmints? How can you not breathe any of the fumes from them? I would also like to know how you're supposed to store moth balls if you're trying to keep them for later but you had to open the package to put some in your AC condenser unit. Maybe some of my more experienced readers can help with these burning questions.
And finally, a link to an interesting video on bear hunting in Canada. It's 13 minutes long, but was interesting enough to me to watch the whole thing. Bears make some very odd noises. The only thing I object to is whoever posted the video doesn't know the difference between the proper use of it's and its.
Later gators.
P.S. If you think I travel like a crazy person, you should meet my parents some time. Sometimes they do stuff that I think I'm too old to be doing!
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Price Paid for Freedom and Liberty. We're thankful for those willing to die for natural freedom and liberty. How much more for one who paid the price for spiritual liberty?
Let me introduce myself since you'll start to see more of me in the future on this blog. My name is Flat MelBMarvis. I've been the germ of an idea of 3D MelBMarvis for several years (inspired by my cousin Flat Stanley), and I finally came to life when 3D MelBMarvis was on vacation in Guam and Saipan this year.
My most recent adventure was up to the UP where I was able to see the Mackinac Bridge. Sometimes 3D MelBMarvis forgets to take me along on her trips, but she's getting better at remembering. When she gets tired of being in all the photos, then I step in front of the camera lens.
Check out some of my travels so far this year! I made my debut a couple weeks ago on the blog here.
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| At my birth in Guam. |
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| My most recent adventure to see the Mackinac Bridge in Michigan. |
My 4th of July was very enjoyable. I hope yours was the same. It didn't involve any fireworks unfortunately, but everything else was great. Uncle Bex, Jax, Jenx, and I went up to Da U.P., eh, to go camping for the weekend. We did a couple things the same as last year, but there were some different things too. Shax did not join us. Here are the highlights:
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| Who cares if the water is cold? There are other advantages. |
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| Jax, Jenx, and Bex Chillin' and Grillin' |
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| Substituting for graham crackers: Rice Krispie bars with peanut butter. Delicious. |
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| You can see why they're called Pictured Rocks. |
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| Jenx and Jax paddling it up on the lake without a rudder (but they did have paddles). |
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| Uncle Bex getting ready to go underneath Lovers Leap. |
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| Lunch stop view in addition to beautiful Lake Superior. |
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| More beauty. |
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| The waterfalls we saw: Wagner Falls, Miners Falls, and Munising Falls. |
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| Jenx and Jax at Miners Castle. |
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| One must needs stop at the Falling Rock Cafe and Bookstore. Good ambiance, ice cream, and fruit smoothies. |
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| The swimming hole. |
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| Goofy! This is the closest I got to my "I'm falling off the cliff" picture for the trip. |
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| Pasty. Beef. It's what's for dinner. |
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| What I learned from Dad: It ain't real camping unless you bring your pliers. |
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| There's something I'm not clear on: what is the speed limit in the campground? |
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Good Friends
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Fresh Berries - I think these are mulberries, although people at work also called them sugar plums and dew berries. All I know is that they're delicious. Picked and eaten the same day. Mmmmm....mmmmm.....mmmmm.
I better summarize what I did last weekend before another weekend has come and gone. Last weekend I went to the cheesy state. It was a very nice, relaxing time with some good friends and some woikas. A few highlights:
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| From left: Dictionary, Beanie, Jenx, and Uncle Bex. |
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| Same kayakers, same river, different spot on the river. |
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| Stone bridge. |
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| Blue heron seen on the river. |
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| Flat MelBMarvis goes to eat Mexican food in MKE. |
The big hulabaloo at work the last couple of weeks has been the e-mail from human resources (HR) asking us to sign a non-compete agreement. Not everybody is required to sign it, but a good portion of the engineers got the e-mail because they are considered to have business critical proprietary knowledge. When you start working there, you have to sign a non-disclosure agreement, which basically says that you won't give company secrets to external people and that any inventions you create while at the company are the property of the company. That's pretty standard stuff. The non-compete agreement takes it one step further and says that not only will you not give away company confidential information, but you won't go and work for a competitor for at least a year after you leave the company. And, it also prohibits you from starting your own business and competing directly with the company in the same industry. Supposedly these are fairly standard in industry.
There are some points of the agreement that are more inflammatory and caused extra discussion and HR communication meetings. The year of not working for a competitor applies even if you are fired by the company. If the company sues you for violating the non-compete agreement and wins, you have to pay the company's legal fees. However, if you win, the company does not pay for your legal fees. And, you must notify the company and get approval for any new job you take within the year of leaving the company. This allows them to assess if there is risk of violating the non-compete agreement. And yes, this applies if your new job is being a greeter at Wal-Mart.
I signed the document and sent it back the first day I got it because I knew it was one of those things I could easily forget. Plus, if I ever leave the company, I don't plan to go to a competitor. First of all, it seems unethical and would come with too many complications, so I would avoid it. I also have several other standing job offers in other industries that I would be more interested in than going to competitor. I think it's debatable whether a couple of the clauses in the agreement would really stand up in court, so I'm not really worried. And, I don't think the company is going to bother suing most people unless there was some grievous breach of confidentiality with a competitor. On top of that, signing the agreement is a non-negotiable condition of continued employment. That pretty much narrows it down to one question: "Do you want to continue to work here or not?" If yes, then sign it. If no, then you better start looking for a new job.
What kind of surprised me was the variety of things people took exception to. Kadmium objected to the company assuming he would be unethical and the implied lack of trust. For me, that's not one of my hot buttons. I figure there are always dishonest people, and the company has to protect itself against those people. What gets my goat a little more is that I would have to notify the company for a year of every job I took. I don't like the lack of independence that implies. Others didn't like that their options were being limited. Their thought was, "what if the only job I could find was with a competitor?" I'm with the HR guy on this one whose reply was that most people's options really are not that limited. There are some people who are still contemplating being stubborn and not signing it. In my opinion, this is not a hill I care to die on, but I imagine that some people might decide that it is.
Anyway, just some food for thought on life in corporate America.
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Flowers
I'm sure most of you are aware of the Edward Snowden thing and how he revealed that the NSA has been spying on all Americans for some time now. Unfortunately, I can't say that totally surprises me, but at the same time it also makes me angry and more paranoid. Here is my general rant on that and other issues related to internet security.
I've always been wary of posting too much personal information on facebook. And I do post a fair amount of personal information on this blog, but in general try to not to make it super obvious what my true identity is. If someone really wanted to, of course they could figure it out by reading seven years of posts. It's not that I have anything to hide, but there are identity thieves out there trolling for information. And not only identity thieves - governments, corporations looking to learn your preferences, etc. Don't be naive. Anything of a personal nature that is on the internet can eventually be read by anyone who is determined to collect that information. Some of it may be harder to get to than others, but eventually they can probably get to all of it unless you're some kind of super encryption wizard who doesn't use any "free" services offered on the internet and makes not purchases over the internet.
When critics of Facebook cite privacy concerns, the founder of Facebook says that he's not concerned about you sharing all the details of your life because you shouldn't be doing things if you need to hide them. It's not a matter to trying to hide stuff. It's a matter of liking privacy and desiring to exercise my right to privacy. It's also about not wanting my identity to be stolen. It's the same thing with the NSA. Supposedly they only collected meta data. Well, you can learn a lot from data. I object to the government wanting to know all that. If I look at your phone records, I could probably tell you who your good friends are, what time of day you like to call your friends and family, who your doctor(s) are, if you and your family are healthy based on the number of times you call your doctor, what types of illnesses you might have based on what type of doctors you're calling, when you've had maintenance issues with your house, issues with your car, etc. The list is nearly as long as your phone bill. Yes, the government can get this information anyway if they get a warrant. But, in my opinion they should have to get a warrant and have probable cause - they shouldn't have carte blanche to collect all data on everybody. To me, that's a lot of power at hand with too much temptation to abuse it, regardless of who is running the government. The only exception to this is if God is the king of your government. There's only one kingdom where that is the case, and none of the countries on the map are that kingdom.
Knowledge is power, and all that knowledge can be used in the wrong way. Most likely it could be misused to blackmail people, to change political candidates and affect voting outcomes by threatening to expose things, to harass someone who disagrees with the status quo, and so many other things. Human nature could think of endless things to do with all that information. And speaking of human nature, let's be realistic. Everyone has done things they don't want everyone else to know about. So there will always be some kind of data to threaten somebody with if the government is allowed to collect it. Unless you're Jesus Christ, but he left this earth more than 2,000 years ago.
To me, all this oversight by the government is feeling a little gestapo-like. Speaking of that, I heard an ad on the radio yesterday for the federal government's website usa.gov. Really!?! That's how they spend my tax money? By advertising their website in an effort to make people even more dependent on the government? The ad included a phase to something of the effect "you'll be surprised how much this website will become your source for information." Ummmm.....no, I won't. Because I don't plan to interact with the federal government that much. I have to renew my passport through that website and pay my taxes to the IRS. And maybe check on travel advisories to other countries. But other than that, I'm not planning to accept more propaganda from the U.S. government by voluntarily visiting their website, thank you very much. I'm sure every time I have to go to their website they collect meta data on me, just like every other website on the internet.
As John Adams, one of our founding fathers stated, "It is more important that innocence should be protected, than it is,
that guilt be punished; for guilt and crimes are so frequent in this
world, that all of them cannot be punished.... when innocence itself, is
brought to the bar and condemned, especially to die, the subject will
exclaim, 'it is immaterial to me whether I behave well or ill, for
virtue itself is no security.' And if such a sentiment as this were to
take hold in the mind of the subject that would be the end of all
security whatsoever." I think I agree with this. If the government is going to be able to prevent all violence in our country, they will be so oppressive that we will lose our freedoms. Take China, for example. Their crime rate is reportedly very low. The amount of freedom they have is also very low. And all that oppression still doesn't prevent all crime. The government is still corrupt, and crimes like human trafficking, fraud, and counterfeiting still occur.
Life doesn't come with a guarantee of complete security, so why is the government trying to make it that way? I vote for freedom with higher risk rather than less freedom with lower risk. We should be reasonable and try to catch terrorists, but let's not lose sight of what is really important.
I was listening to the radio yesterday and today when the reporters were talking about Edward Snowden and how the U.S. government is trying to extradite him because of what he did. To me, this seems over the top. As long as he didn't reveal really deep national secrets, what is the difference between him and every other government employee that leaks information? Every day you can look in the newspaper and read an article related to the government where some government worker is cited giving some inside information, but the source is not named because he/she was speaking on conditions of anonymity because they weren't authorized to discuss the information. Why are we not rounding up all of those sources of leaks too? To me, this seems like a bit of a witch hunt. If they're going to prosecute him, they should be prosecuting all those other leakers too. Yeah, he shouldn't have broken the confidentiality agreement. But the federal government shouldn't be breaking the trust of all the American people. And if he couldn't in true conscience watch the government continue what he was doing, then good for him to reveal those wrongs. This country was founded by people who objected to the tyranny of government interfering in people's lives.
Ranted out.
I happened to go back to one of my posts from several years ago. It seems to me like I was funnier back then. Now most of my posts are travelogues or something. Or, maybe a brag book of my travels and kayaking excursions. Have I over-stayed my humor on this blog?
That's about all I know. I'm soon off to do more traveling and kayaking! Did I mention the three main themes of this blog? No? They are as follows: travel, kayaking, and robots. Just FYI.
Farm out.
Last weekend I went to the land of cowpokes. I always enjoy traveling there, and it's fun to get re-acquainted with some of the nice folks out there. It also made me think of this song. As a double bonus, 'vention was happening. A few highlights:
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Sky Beauty - One of the biggest and clearest rainbows I've ever seen. It was a good end to the drive to 'vention. If you look closely, you can see the double rainbow.
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Mother Nature - I think this is a baby squirrel. At first I couldn't figure out what it was because I was assuming it was an adult of some kind of animal. Upon further observation, I decided they were baby squirrels.
I'm nearly caught up with life it seems. May was a fairly low key month for me. Other than going home to ND for my uncle's funeral, there were no other major trips involved. Mostly I stayed home and worked on catching up from being so busy the previous four months. It was a good change of pace.
When I thought about Uncle Orville passing away, my first thought was that I didn't know him all that well. We for sure weren't BFFs or anything. I know his wife and daughters much better. But, upon further reflection, we did see him a fair amount. I went on a tour of Europe with him and several other family members. We went on a trip to Ireland and Scotland. He was along for the cruise to Alaska. And, we had many a Christmas or Thanksgiving meal together. I was usually at the "kid" table, but still....you get a sense for a person after a while. As we heard at his funeral, he was a man of routine. Sometimes that might seem kind of boring, but it can also make for a very steady and faithful person. Considering that he took all those trips when he was in his 70's or 80's, you have to appreciate his willingness to experience new things. He also liked his afternoon naps and going home at a reasonable hour of the evening (although he didn't always get to leave at that reasonable hour). On top of that, he has four very nice daughters that I enjoy spending time with. At the funeral they had his Red Wing boots near the casket, and that kind of summarizes who he was. A faithful, slightly gruff, down-to-earth farmer to the core. One of his common things to say was, "Say...."
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| In Ireland in 2004. |
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| Final farewell. |
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| Starved Rock State Park |
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| Matthiessen State Park - Lake Falls |
I'm just about over the cold I contracted last week. That's the third one in 2013, which is fairly unusual for me. Mostly there is just a cough left. I'm reminded again how I hate being sick. The other people at work who have had this cold say that the cough hangs on forever. Maybe it's my imagination, but it seems like more of these "hang on forever" kind of colds have come around more recently. Either that, or it's just recycled around the office because there are lots of people in close proximity all touching the microwave, coffee pot, and water cooler. Supposedly diseases spread more these days because people travel so much more. Those are reasonable theories. Sometimes I also like to speculate more wildly and jump on the conspiracy theory trains. These theories have been aided by reading spy/cop thriller types of books. For example,
In the end of April and first part of May, I was feeling industrious and did a lot of clean-up on my office. I sorted through about three years' worth of receipts and insurance statements. I found more of the flat surface of my desk than I had found in years. And, I almost got my auxiliary table cleared off. The goal is to eventually be able to put that table away again, but I have a few decisions to make about where to put my robotics and patent stuff and things.
Things I found amazing this week:
1. Proteins (from a TIME magazine article)
