Soooo.......facebook is causing social dithering again. Do you remember how I said it was a social minefield? I traveled for work to a different location a while back. Today I received a friend request from a person who works at that location. That wouldn't be all that odd in itself seeing how I work closely with several people there. The thing is, I barely know this friend request person at all. If it's the person I think it is that I vaguely remember meeting while I was there, he stopped me in the hall and introduced himself and we had a brief conversation about what I was working on. This person is not someone I regularly interact with at work. He's a mechanical engineer from a department my group doesn't interact with much if at all. I looked him up in the corporate directory, but both his picture on facebook and his picture in the corporate directory do not give a good look at his face, so I'm not sure I even have the right person's image in my head.
Anyways, we don't have any "official" mutual friends on facebook, although a couple of his facebook friends are people that I regularly work with. This means that he had to have purposefully searched for me on facebook. The big question is, what's his angle? I think I know what it is, but am interested to see what other people think. The other question is, would it be a bad idea to ask my co-workers I know well from that location what they think of this guy, causing rumors/gossip to possibly fly around the workplace there? I'm not all that interested in approving him as a friend if he's going to turn out to be a stalker or something, but at the same time it doesn't seem like it would hurt to approve his friend request, seeing how I don't post much stuff on facebook and don't really hear from anybody all that much via facebook.
In other topics, I've been the kind of person in the past who likes to cook meat on "high" - maximum temps, minimum time. But, I'm learning to have a little more patience and less paranoia about undercooked meat. Boy, the brats I grilled this evening sure were good when I did more of a slow cook. Along with them I did asparagus and potatoes on the grill. Mmmmm......mmmmm.....mmmmm.
Until this year, I think I didn't fully appreciate summer. This year, I'm appreciating every hot day and trying to make the most of it. Well, most of the time anyway. I am sitting here at my computer as we speak instead of going down to the beach to watch the sunset. It seems like summer is going way too fast this year.
My first paragraph reminded me of a story that I forgot to tell about Memorial Day. Ananias and I were at the grocery store looking at all the coffee options (after the hot dog abortion discussion). Well, she was looking and I was patiently waiting and trying to helpfully point out what different brands were available. After allowing her five minutes of intense contemplation, I said, "Now I know how other people feel when I sit and dither about a decision forever." It was kind of a funny incident, and I think Ananias thought it was funny because I used the word dither in normal conversation, but really, who doesn't do that? Just saying - there's not really a moral to that story. Later gators.